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Refreshing Your Waves and Curls

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Refreshing next day curls is something I get asked about a lot. I receive at least one email a day with someone begging me to tell them the secret to having curly hair the looks good the next day, or just figuring out how to make their style last longer.

So here are my top tips and tricks for refreshing curly hair!

Realistic Expectations

Now, before I get into the how to’s and all that, I want to make sure you understand that getting your hair to look good past wash day is VERY difficult to achieve for the first 6 months of embracing your natural hair.

It’s even more difficult if your hair is especially damaged or very fine/thin.

Delilah Orpi Holistic Enchila smiling after her curly hair refresh

It was at around 4 months into the curly girl method before I could successfully refresh my hair and I didn’t have to just put it up.

So please understand that even if you do everything I say, your hair still may not look as good as you want it to after refreshing. It will certainly look better, but not ideal.

So don’t stress it. Put it up if you have to and don’t bother wasting time if you can figure out refreshing. Eventually, you won’t have this problem.

Master Your Wash Day

Before we get to the refresh, it’s very important to nail down your wash day.

How your hair comes out on wash day sets it until your next wash day. And since it looks best on wash day and goes downhill from here, you want to start off with the best possibility.

Really take your time on wash day to get the style you want. Focus on clumps and use a good styling product with hold so it lasts longer.

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Sleep In A Pineapple or Buff

You also need to preserve your curls overnight as best you can. Most people sleep in a pineapple or use a buff and have a silk pillowcase.

Protecting your curls at night helps preserve them so you don’t have to do much the next day. It helps prevent frizz, tangles, and stretched out curls.

Read more: How To Sleep With Curly Hair

Use a shower cap when you’re not washing your hair.

To prevent your hair from frizzing up and falling flat from the steam and water in your shower, I recommend you use a shower cap to protect your curls.

I prefer not to use disposable products so this is the shower cap I use.

How To Refresh Curls

There are a few different ways to refresh. In general, using water will give you some more frizz, adding product will add definition but also weigh it down and make it feel “producty”, and using watered down conditioner adds definition without making it feel as heavy as styling product.

I like to recommend a simple DIY curl refresher. Fill a small spray bottle about 3/4 of the way up with purified water, add a few squirts of conditioner (can be your regular conditioner or leave in), and a few squirts of a gel. This would be your refreshing “liquid”, aka curl refresher. Shake it well before using it.

Yield: 1 bottle

DIY Curl Refresher

DIY Curl Refresher

A simple DIY curl refresher spray to revive next day curls.

Prep Time 5 minutes
Total Time 5 minutes


  • 8 ounce spray bottle
  • purified water
  • 2-3 tbsp conditioner
  • 2 tbsp hair gel or other styling product
  • 6 drops lavender essential oil
  • 6 drops rosemary essential oil
  • 6 drops peppermint essential oil
  • OPTIONAL: 1 tbsp aloe vera gel or argan oil


  1. Add the conditioner to the bottle. Use more if your hair tends to be dry and likes moisture.
  2. Add your styling gel or other styling product with hold.
  3. Add the lavender, peppermint, and rosemary essential oils.
  4. Optional: You can add 1 tbsp of pure aloe vera gel or argan oil for added moisture. *Aloe is better for hair that gets weighed down easily but some hair reacts badly to aloe.
  5. Fill the rest of the bottle up with purified water.
  6. Shake before each use.


The essential oils help freshen and soothe the scalp. You can omit them if preferred.

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Not into the DIY life? Check out these ready made curl refreshers:

Delilah with day 4 hair hair after a wet refresh
Day 4 hair after a wet refresh

Wet Refresh

You can fully wet your hair and style again, or dampen your hair depending on how much you need to fix.

Most people have success spraying their curl refresher (or whatever liquid you’re using) all over to dampen hair, then doing praying hands to smooth down frizz. You can do this in sections or all over at once. You want to glide and lightly pull on each section to really smooth it out. Then you can spray more into your hands and finger coil individual curls clumps or spray more on sections that need more work.

It may help to brush out a section that is very knotted and frizzy. Just make sure it’s pretty damp before brushing it.

Once you have wet your hair and restyled it, scrunch a bit to encourage curl formation. Don’t be too aggressive or you will cause frizz. You can air dry or diffuse dry. Dry time will be much quicker than on wash day since your hair isn’t soaking wet. If you get a cast then release it by scrunching or doing praying hands as usual.

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In my constant quest for volume, I decided to brush out my curls using only my fingers to create frizz, then proceed with refreshing. I also used @notyourmothers Plump For Joy volumizing dry shampoo which is not CG approved, but I’m testing it to see if it works better than powder dry shampoos. Still not sure if there is much of a difference but I’ll keep testing. This did all give me great volume that lasted, especially since I used the new @evolvh UltraFlex Hairspray (love it!). The gel I used was @gioavnnicosmetics LA Hold. I love using frizz to my advantage like this. How do you make frizz work for you? #curlygirlmovement #loveyourcurls #2c3a #cleancurls #embraceyourcurls #curlygirljourney #girlswithcurls #curlygirl #curlfriends #naturallycurlyhair #naturalwavyhair #curlyhairjunkies #curljunkie #3acurls #teamcurly #curlies #greenbeauty #highporosityhair #curlyhairproblems #curlyhaircommunity #curlcommunity #cocktailofcurls #cleanbeauty #curlyhairtips #finecurlyhair #simplecurlygirl #curlygirlmethod #cgmethod #simplecurlygirl #curlyhairroutine

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Dry Refresh

This is what I do. This is refreshing without wetting your hair, and probably isn’t something you can do in the early days of the curly girl method.

A dry refresh is best when you just need to get rid of oily roots or to add volume. The curls are fine but may be limp or just a bit frizzy.

Add dry shampoo to help with oily roots and volume. A quick scalp massage is good to do for this. I like to finger coil curls to help smooth them out if they’re fluffy. I also finger detangle individual curl clumps that have knots then recoil them. Then you can add a small amount of refreshing liquid or styling product directly onto dry hair to restyle. Do the same process of smoothing the hair and scrunching. You can watch a few dry refresh videos on my YouTube Curly Hair Refreshes playlist shown at the end of this post (or click here to go there now).

And when all else fails, you can always do a bun and headband! 😁

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I get asked how I refresh my hair on days 3-5 or when it’s tangled and looks bad, and to be honest I don’t. I just do an updo like this one. During my first year CG, I sometimes “refreshed” with conditioner on day 2 or 3 but usually I don’t bother because I’m lazy. I’d rather start over than work on dirty old hair. My hair doesn’t do well with adding more products. This style is just a simple loose bun and @bizzybcrafts headband. And it’s not really 60 seconds but it was 1:55 so still really fast! Check out my stories for a little more info. I also have a few refreshing videos on my IGTV and YouTube channels. . . . #curlygirlmethod #cgmethod #cgm #curlygirlmovement #loveyourcurls #2c3a #cleancurls #embraceyourcurls #curlygirljourney #girlswithcurls #curlygirl #curlyhair #curlygirlsofinstagram #curlfriends #naturallycurlyhair #naturalwavyhair #cgm #curlyhairjunkies #curlynaturalhair #curljunkie #3acurls #teamcurly #curlies #curlygirlbeforeandafter #highporosityhair #curlyhairproblems #curlyhaircommunity

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I also have a few other go-to hairstyles for when my hair is beyond repair, as is usual days 3 and on. You can check them out here.

So, as with everything else curly hair, you will need to try a few different methods and techniques to find which works best for your hair. Remember though that your hair isn’t supposed to look exactly like wash day every day. Be realistic and embrace your beautiful natural hair.

Refreshing Video Tutorials

I am going to link my YouTube playlist that includes all my refreshing videos here. You can also watch the playlist below.

If you want help with embracing your naturally wavy or curly hair, you can join my FREE email course and download my FREE pdf guide, THE QUICK START GUIDE TO MASTERING YOUR CURLS, full of everything you need to know to get started and bring out your beautiful waves and curls.

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  1. My fine, 2B/C hair doesn’t do well with any of these refresh methods. I use a silk pillowcase at night, but don’t pineapple as I find it pulls out my curls. Just sleeping with my hair down is fine. I leave my hair out in the shower as the slight dampness and steam enhance my curls and give it volume. I’m one of the few people whose curls love humidity. I rarely use product to refresh, a little water or steam is enough to refresh the product in my hair and my waves. Some days like this morning, I didn’t refresh my hair at all and it looks great!

  2. I thought I would just try and mix the Refresh Curly Hair recipe using one of the frequently mentioned products.

    The result was the products (conditioner and jell) would not emulsify with the other ingredients. Probably the conditioner. Leaving this layer of tiny globular material.

  3. Curious if you use a diffuser and if so what type? My daughters hair is probably 3b/3c and she had a lot of it. Thanks.

    1. I do. I use the Shark dyer and diffuser but it’s priecy. I recommend the Xtava Black Orchid diffuser with any dryer that fits it. That was what I used before I got the Shark.

  4. Thanks Delilah! Your refresh recipe and tips have given me just what I was looking for for my 2C/medium porosity/medium density, Day 2 and 3 hair. I sort of have to admit that I used to just expect my curls and waves to look like Day 1 hair and you really make it clear that we should not expect to have our hair look like Day 1, as it’s not realistic. Embracing our natural hair is key and refreshing it makes a huge difference for me! Hope you have a lovely day.

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