If you’ve been following me for a while then you know I follow the Curly Girl Method. In this post, I explain the basics of the Curly Girl Method for wavy and curly hair.
I used to have mostly wavy hair, and over time following the Curly Girl Method, it has become curlier so that it’s mostly curly now with some wavy parts. So the curly girl method works for wavy and curly hair. You can see more of my curly girl method before and after in this post.
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What is the Curly Girl Method?
The Curly Girl Method all started with Lorraine Massey’s The Curly Girl Handbook. Definitely read the book before starting, or at the same time as starting at least. It gives great insight and will help you troubleshoot along the way.
Not only is this method a special way to care for wavy and curly hair to bring out its natural curl with less frizz, but it’s also a lifestyle and mindset change. It’s a journey and takes lots of patience and perseverance to stick with it through the bad wash days and products that flop.
Basically, the curly girl method is a set of rules to follow, such as process, ingredients, and techniques.
Avoid the following:
- non-water soluble silicones
- drying alcohols
- heat styling
- regular towels
- hair dye
You can use CurlsBot to look for curly girl method approved products. I also have a post affordable and clean curly girl method approved products and another on my favorite curly girl approved products for fine curly hair.
Some people place great importance on curl types to choose products. I honestly think porosity and density are more important, but I’ll go over them all here.
Type 2 Wavy Hair
- 2A: has a slight wave, usually fine and thin, tousled look
- 2B: straight at the roots with an s shape, frizz at the crown
- 2C: more defined waves that start at the roots, more frizz
Type 3 Curls
- 3A: big, loose curls and spirals, well defined s shape, the circumference of sidewalk chalk
- 3B: tighter curls, the circumference of a sharpie, has more volume
- 3C: tightly packed corkscrews, the circumference of a straw
Type 4 Coils
- 4A: dense and springy coils, wiry or fine
- 4B: more z like shape than curls or coils, strands range from fine to coarse
- 4C: less definition and more shrinkage than 4B, very delicate
So those are all the curl types. I have 2c and 3a waves and curls. I used to be all 2b but it got curlier over time. That is not always the case but it does often change throughout life, which is one reason I think curl type is not as important as people make it out to be.
More important than curl type is porosity. You should be choosing your products depending on how your hair behaves as this will tell you what it needs. Porosity has to do with how your hair absorbs and retains moisture.
I have a full guide on hair porosity which I recommend you read and find out what yours is.
Another thing to consider is density, or how much hair you have. If you have low-density hair as I do, you do not want to weigh your hair down. High density will have the opposite problem.
My scalp shows very easily so I sacrifice definition on top and avoid any product, even conditioner near my scalp. I want it to be fluffier there to hide my scalp.
Along with my hair being high porosity, it’s very important for me to choose very lightweight products so I can have volume and definition.
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✨Progress Post✨ I’ve posted this before but I’m sharing it again for new followers and as a reminder for anyone on or thinking of starting the #curlygirlmethod I just want to show you the change my hair has made with proper care and technique. The pic on the left is my “curly” hair in 2006. I usually straightened it, colored it, used all the wrong products and methods, and hated it. The right pic was taken last year. So that’s a 12 year difference. Transitioning and figuring out your curls takes a really long time. You have to experiment, read, watch lots of videos, try different products, and have lots of patience. Now I only started actually following the curly girl method about 2 years ago so I’m not saying it will take this long BUT it’s definitely not a change you’ll see in weeks or months even. ______ Some tips for newbies or anyone who might be discouraged: ➿ Stick to using sulfate and silicone free products, ditch the towel and brush, & avoid heat styling. ➿ CGM is just a few steps: cleanse, condition, style, and dry. Don’t complicate it. ➿ Understand that technique is MORE important than product. Stop looking for the “right product” and practice styling techniques instead. I promise there isn’t a magic product that will give you your best curls. It’s all about technique and proper care. ➿ You don’t need to use multiple products or spend an inordinate amount of time on your hair for this to work. If you are, step back and evaluate the situation. ➿ Have patience! Lots of it! Try new products and techniques a few times before giving up. Swipe to see a few more tips. ______ Also, check out my free guide to getting started on the curly girl method linked in my bio 🔗 and my CGM Basics YouTube video . . #curlycommunity #curlygirl #naturallycurly #naturalwavyhair #curlyhairtips #curlyhaircare #curlyhairdontcare #curljunkie #teamcurly #healthyhairjourney #loveyourcurls #curlygirlsrock #cleancurls #curlscurlscurls #wavyhair #curlcommunity #curlfriends #greenbeauty #cleanbeauty #hairtransformation #cgmethod #curlyhairproducts #curlyhairproblems #curls #crueltyfreebeauty #mondaymotivation #3acurls #curlygirljourney
How to wash and style with the Curly Girl Method
1. Cleanse: Depending on what your hair and scalp needs, you can wash with a co-wash, low-poo, or clarifying shampoo that is free of sulfates and non-water soluble silicones.
When you first start, you will need to do what is called a final wash. This is the last wash you will do with sulfates to remove all the buildup and silicones in the hair to start fresh.
2. Condition: Again, depending on how much moisture your hair needs is the type of conditioner you will use. If your hair is really dry you’ll need a thicker, heavier conditioner than others.
There is also leave-in conditioner, which pretty much everyone needs. Leave-in provides the lasting moisture in waves and curls to prevent frizzing and encourage the curl.
Deep conditioning is very important as well. You’ll need to deep condition on a regular basis, and more often if your hair is damaged from coloring and heat styling.
Here is a post on affordable and clean curly girl method approved products and another on my favorite curly girl approved products for thin curly hair.
3. Style: This is the trickiest part. There are so many styling methods and products.
- Apply styling products to wet hair before drying. There are different ways to apply like scrunching it in, raking it in, smoothing it over, etc. Try different methods.
- You can use curl creams, custards, mousse, and/or gel. Make sure to not touch your hair at all while it is drying. You want it to dry hard and crunchy, then you can scrunch out the crunchy hard cast to get soft curls. Read affordable and clean curly girl method approved products and curly girl approved products for thin curly hair. to see my top picks for curly girl approved products.
- Use a cotton t-shirt, microfiber towel, or flour sack towel to plop dry your hair. See numbers 5 and 6 of my curly and wavy hair hacks post for more details on plopping.
- If you need to dry faster, use a diffuser on low heat. I really like the Xtava Black Orchid diffuser.
- Try out a silk pillowcase or hair buff to help your style last longer and prevent tangles and frizz.
For a more detailed overview of the Curly Girl Method, download my ebook: Beginner’s Guide to the Curly Girl Method.
I recommend you find a blogger with similar hair to yours, not the hair you want but the hair you actually have, and try out their methods and products to see what works for your hair. It will take lots of experimenting so be patient.
The Curly Girl Method for Wavy Hair
When applying the CG Method for wavy hair you just need to make a few tweaks.
- You will need to use a low-poo and clarifying shampoo more often than curly types. Some wavies don’t ever co-wash (myself included).
- Deep condition less often.
- Use more water during the styling process to get good clumps.
- Use lighter products and sometimes even less product. Check out my post on products for fine curly and wavy hair.
- Use a diffuser to help with volume and to for tighter curl pattern.
- Understand that your hair may never be curly and might stay wavy and learn to embrace how beautiful your waves are.
Ready to get started on the curly girl method?
Be sure to download my free getting started guide which details each step to make sure you get started on the right foot. It outlines all the ingredients you should avoid, explains common curly girl terminology, and has links to video tutorials.
I also want to offer some advice:
Keep it simple and focus on what matters. Don’t let yourself be overwhelmed.Confucius
I see women get so overwhelmed and frustrated with this method. The whole point of going to your natural hair is simplicity. Back to basics. No more being a slave to the flat iron.
This process takes a long time. You have likely been mistreating your hair for many years so you have to be realistic about how long it will take to bring back your waves and curls.
Yes, in the beginning, you will need to experiment with products and methods, and that will take time. But you don’t need to spend hours on your hair for this to work. You don’t need to apply 8 different products for this to work. You don’t need to do try everything you see others doing.
Stick to the basics. Get a good cleanser, conditioner, and styler and go from there. If you still have a lot of frizz, then troubleshoot with more or less product, different ingredients, and different styling techniques. I have a post all about frizz which can help as well.
The most crucial part for success with this method is to master the application process, not the actual products. Once you figure out how to best apply the products to your hair, you can have success with almost any product line.
But know that frizz is a part of having curly hair. It will never completely go away. So embrace what you have and work with it. Whether it’s wavy or curly, voluminous or flat, just enhance it. You can’t change what you have and force it to be something else.
Overall, don’t let others overwhelm you!
READ MY OTHER POPULAR POSTS ON CURLY HAIR:
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- How To Dry Curly Hair
- 14 Hacks For Curly and Wavy Hair
- Curly Girl Method Before and After – 1 Year Progress Update
- Ultimate Guide to Hair Porosity for Curly Hair
- My Favorite Products for Fine Curly Hair
- 11 Surprising Reasons You Have Frizz + Tips to Beat Frizz
Also, follow me on Instagram as I’m always posting tips and tutorials.